February 20, 2025
The day I left home at seventeen, the world stretched before me like an uncharted map. The bustling city, a stark contrast to my quiet hometown, held both promise and uncertainty. Amidst the excitement, a gnawing homesickness took root, a longing for the familiar comfort of my mother's cooking. It wasn't simply the flavors I missed, but the profound act of being fed by her hand.
In Pakistani culture, eating by hand transcends mere sustenance; it's an intimate connection with food and family. Sharing from a communal plate fosters a sense of belonging, a shared moment of joy. This tradition, passed down through generations, embodies love and unity.
No culinary masterpiece can rival the taste of a mother's cooking. It's infused with love, intuition, and a deep understanding of her children's preferences. Each dish carries a warmth that nourishes both body and soul.
Returning home from university, my heart held a single desire: to savor my favorite meal, peas pilao with chicken salan, lovingly fed to me by my mother. After a long journey and much-needed rest, my wish was granted. The aroma of freshly cooked food filled the air, a symphony of familiar scents. As my mother sat beside me, feeding me with her own hands, a wave of peace washed over me. Each bite was a reminder of home, a sanctuary from the challenges of the outside world.
A mother's cooking is imbued with love. Every ingredient is chosen with care, every dish prepared with devotion. This love translates into flavors that evoke comfort and nostalgia. A single bite can transport us back to childhood, a time of safety and unconditional love.
Mothers are culinary artists, their hands guided by experience and instinct. They weave cultural traditions and personal touches into every meal, creating a tapestry of flavors that tell a story. Their cooking is a testament to the power of food to connect, heal, and foster peace.
The simple act of sharing a meal can bridge divides and build understanding. In a world often marred by conflict, the universal language of food offers a path to peace. Just as a mother's cooking nourishes and unites her family, sharing food with others can cultivate empathy and compassion. It's a reminder that we are all connected, sharing the same basic needs and desires.
In the spirit of peacebuilding, let us embrace the power of food to bring people together. By sharing meals, stories, and traditions, we can create a world where understanding and empathy prevail. Just as a mother's love is evident in every bite of her cooking, let our actions be infused with compassion and respect for all.
Zarreen Barlas
Peace Intern